By Chinyanta Nkonde
Expectations, possessiveness, insecurities, jealousy and actions do. Memories don’t hurt, love doesn’t hurt, attachments hurt. It is the expectation that hurts. It is the imagined future that is broken that hurts.
True love who can define?
These days you find that being in love is just a joke where people take your affection and display of love as a weakness. The reason why people are doubting love is because some have lost faith in love. Love isn’t about being true or false. Love is not a true or false game where You are choosing an option. Love is when someone does something beyond his/her reach just for You. Don’t make love a word of discussion and topic. Let it be peace, and believe in it because love exists.
We are living in a world were we pretend to be understanding, caring, loving and that we are happy. But the truth is everyone is lying. We are not the way we showcase ourselves. We fear rejection and dislikes.
The true nature of us is to love. Each of us has love in us. The only thing is we can’t give what we never knew that we had. Instead of thinking love is a process, make it a habit.
How bad can one be, after all bad is absence of good, so being good is the true nature of anyone and is real, where as bad is imaginary. So is every feeling , love is real hate is imaginary and this goes on. You can’t tell something doesn’t exist since you haven’t known it. What if one day it will come into your life and make you feel true love does exist.
Meanwhile, I will never know what love is in your context. Love is an abstract thing. One will perceive it in his own way. We view love according to the presence that we grew up with. The atmosphere of the presence of love in our lives will present us with the perception we will hold on love. So stop thinking of true, real, and other kind of loves as there is love in all of them and start loving.
Nowadays people don’t feel satisfied with what they got be it cloths, gadgets, foods, friends, partner, and even life.
Look around you, most of the people are always complaining about something. They may have got what they wanted but it loses its charm later with their need for the best. Same thing happens with love. People misunderstand attraction and view it with intent of true love and true love with boredom. A partner who once looked perfect becomes something intolerable with time. Love and heartbreak are common now they happen to every single person. And in between these trends, true love is lost somewhere.
There is a race between demands which are never going to stop. Everybody wants the perfect love story but no one wants to compromise to build that perfect love story .
